Am I good enough?
It’s a crazy question taking up so much mental space that it’s time to deal with the issue RIGHT NOW. Insecurity comes in many shapes and sizes. A person can feel confident in their physical appearance and insecure in their intelligence. A woman can feel great when she’s speaking in front of a crowd and lousy when she’s talking to a person one-on-one. The variations of insecurity and self-doubt are countless but the root of all self-doubt is the same:
You believe a lie about yourself so strongly that you make it the truth.
How do you stop asking the crazy question, “Am I good enough?”
How do you stop feeling stuck in a certain spot in life because you’re not “worthy”?
How do you let go of your what your mother, father, brother, sister, or some long ago teacher said about you, the thing that stuck in your brain as a child and is now wreaking havoc in your life as a story you keep retelling?
How do you get over not being enough?
You decide to, one area of life at a time, one day at a time, one step at a time.
You DECIDE not to believe the lie someone told you decades ago.
You DECIDE that you run the show and you get to be whoever you choose.
You DECIDE that your dignity, your respect, and your self-esteem are worthy of your time.
You DECIDE that you can be MORE of who you are and that’s it not selfish to do so.
You DECIDE that anyone who doesn’t like you being brave, brilliant, and daring isn’t worth keeping in your life.
You DECIDE that you have to grow… no matter who gets left behind.
You DECIDE that the only way to live is to do so fully and full throttle living requires ALL of you.
You DECIDE that you weren’t an accident, that you aren’t a mistake, and that you were born to do great things.
You DECIDE that rock bottom is the foundation upon which you can build your life and you begin building it TODAY.
You DECIDE that the only opinion that matters is yours. Yes, other people’s opinions will sting. Yes, they will hurt. And, no, they won’t matter if you make YOUR opinions the facts and their opinions heresy.
You DECIDE that asking yourself crazy questions and keeping yourself awake agonizing over the answers is a TOTAL and COMPLETE waste of time and you stop that RIGHT NOW!
You DECIDE that it is far too exhausting to emotionally beat yourself up than it is to energetically build yourself up… and you choose to build, not beat.
You DECIDE that, at the end of your life, you don’t want to be the bitter old hag who grumbles about what everybody’s taken from her and that you’d rather be the wise, gorgeous old woman who basks in all that she’s received, shared, and given.
You DECIDE that today, right here, right now, you can give up that old story and write a new one… and you do so with a pen, with your words, with your mind, and, especially, with your heart and you rewrite the script of your life scene by scene, line by line.
You DECIDE to be different because you recognize that you NEVER have to be a person you don’t like.
You DECIDE and you DO… and then everything changes, most significantly, YOU…
The beautiful part of this answer, the scary part of this response, the thrilling part of this adventure
is that the entirety of your self worth and self respect is COMPLETELY UP TO YOU…