I Chose Us But You Chose You: How Women Entrepreneurs Deal With Infidelity (Read Time: 3 min.)

Unsplash 1I knew it was coming… For years, the writing had been on the wall…

You know exactly who I’m talking about: Kourtney Kardashian and Scott Disick…

Yes, the Kardashians… and everyone could see the writing on the wall: Kourtney’s the stability, the security, the breadwinner, and the power entrepreneur.  Scott’s the younger, inept, aimless, addiction-prone partner who is clearly less ambitious, seriously suffering from an inferiority complex, and blatantly unhappy in the relationship… and now he’s been caught cheating.

I’m sad for the children.

I’m angered by the absolute disrespect.

I’m floored by the blatant disregard one person can have for his entire family…

And I’m heartbroken by the fact that Kourtney, as a woman entrepreneur who’s the breadwinner, is not the only woman entrepreneur going through something like this…

Just because her dirty laundry is on blast everywhere doesn’t mean she’s the only one.  There are far too many women entrepreneurs who have successful business lives but, at home, they are desperately waiting… to… exhale…

And it’s time that these powerful women entrepreneurs stopped the madness and did the one thing they’re afraid to do (the one thing Kourtney Kardashian is doing right now): begin again…

We’re so afraid to start over.  So afraid to begin again.  The fear is so great, in fact, that we’ll settle for less than what we deserve, hide behind facades that were never real, and pretend like everything’s great when nothing is.  It’s time to get real and get moving.  Starting over is tough but staying in a hopeless, heartless situation is even tougher.

If someone isn’t treating you right, it’s time to go.  If a situation (business or pleasure) doesn’t feel right, spend no time deliberating your intuition.  Listen and take action.  If you’re feeling lukewarm in your life and numb in your relationships, there’s some truth that you aren’t willing to look at.

And, if you’re in a Kourtney/Scott dead-end relationship that you know wasn’t built for you, it’s time to start over.  Don’t wait.  Don’t debate.  Let it go and get back to yourself… I know it’ll be tough (been there).  I know divorce is never fun (lived it).  I get that you, as the “successful” partner, may have so much to lose (emotionally, financially, etc.) but, if you stay, you have way more to lose that you can’t ever get back.

There is no amount of money that can buy back your self-respect, self-esteem and self-worth.  Nothing is worth losing your soul.

If you need help with starting over, check out my latest book- Begin Again: 32 Ways to Release the Fear of Starting Over.

In the meantime, listen to your gut.  Your intuition is never wrong…

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Is “the” thing really THE thing? (Read Time: 2 min.)

Unsplash 1As entrepreneurs, we work REALLY hard.  There’s always a goal, always a to-do list, always more to get done.  In the constant go-go-go of this lifestyle, how often do you put life on pause to ask the question:

How important is this REALLY?

In other words:

  • How important is this project?
  • How big a deal is this goal?
  • How critical is this project that I’m working on or this deal that I’m doing?
  • How does this fit into my life’s purpose?
  • How does this help transform lives?
  • Where am I in the shuffle of all of this?
  • How is this transforming me, my clients, and everyone else?
  • Is this really serving the world or is it just keeping me from taking a deeper look?

It can be difficult to want to stop and ask these questions but, every now and again, you need to, not simply because you’ll be a better entrepreneur if you do but because you’ll be a stronger, more powerful, higher version of you EVERY time you do.

Check out today’s episode of She Runs The Show where I ask the question, “Is “the” thing really THE thing?”  –>CLICK HERE TO LISTEN<– 

Women Entrepreneurs: Where is your power coming from? (Read Time: 3 min.)

Unsplash 4Power is within you.   Every fiber of your being, every thought that you think, every breath that you inhale and exhale, it’s filled with power…

So, why are so many women entrepreneurs still playing small in the world?

Why are we waiting for our turn to lean in or our opportunity to stand out?

I’m still seeing far too many women in business catering to what they think other people want from them, waiting in the wings because they don’t feel good enough, smart enough, beautiful enough, thin enough or experienced enough…

If only they knew…

In today’s She Runs The Show episode, I talk about where your power is and isn’t coming from… and how to reclaim it…  Check out Episode #41                –>HERE<–

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