The ONE thing you need to do to change ANYTHING… (Read Time: 3 min.)

There’s something about your life that you want to change… and you want it changed NOW, right? You have a goal, a dream, a lifestyle change and you want it BADLY and, yet, you aren’t getting the job done.  Sound familiar? How can you “make” yourself do what you know you NEED to do consistently and… Read More The ONE thing you need to do to change ANYTHING… (Read Time: 3 min.)

Women Breadwinners & Therapy: Why Your Therapist DOESN’T Get it… (Read Time: 4 min.)

Do you see a therapist?  I do!  There was a time when I wouldn’t have been comfortable sharing that.  However, after completing most of my MA in Marriage & Family Therapy and with my PhD in Clinical Psychology starting in the next 12 months AND as a woman breadwinners coach, I can tell you one… Read More Women Breadwinners & Therapy: Why Your Therapist DOESN’T Get it… (Read Time: 4 min.)

What to do when the labor & delivery of your dream stalls… (Read Time: 4 min.)

I remember the birth of my first child (who’s about to be 16 years old next month) like it was yesterday.  Montgomery, Alabama… steaming hot weather… me waddling around at 39.5 weeks… exhilarated, scared, and seriously ready to have my body back.  When 40 weeks came and went, the doctor made the blessed decision to… Read More What to do when the labor & delivery of your dream stalls… (Read Time: 4 min.)

Women Breadwinners & Infertility: How to Not Go Crazy Over the Miracle You Can’t Control… (Read Time: 4 min.)

I experienced secondary infertility at the age of 21.  That’s not what doctors call it when you’re 21.  When you’re in your 20s, they call it “Ah, you’re just fine” or “Oh, give it time” or “Just relax and it’ll happen” but they rarely, at 21, call it infertility.  Fast-forward four years and I was pregnant… Read More Women Breadwinners & Infertility: How to Not Go Crazy Over the Miracle You Can’t Control… (Read Time: 4 min.)

What to do if you don’t REALLY love yourself… (Read time: 5 min.)

Do you REALLY love yourself? Not the “I’m okay, you’re okay” self esteem movement or the “I LOVE ME!” overly exaggerated, let’s-fake-self-love-til-I-feel-self-love self-help technique and sure as hell not the “Once I lose 20 pounds, I’ll love myself” future self idealization process.  No… you… right where you are… right as you are… right now. Do… Read More What to do if you don’t REALLY love yourself… (Read time: 5 min.)

How to use your focus to concentrate your power… (Read Time: 4 min.)

I’m going in a different direction this week than my blog calendar had originally dictated.  That is one of the gifts of being my own boss:  I get to call the shots.  What I want to dish about today is one of my favorite topics of all time: FOCUS. Women breadwinners traditionally have this in… Read More How to use your focus to concentrate your power… (Read Time: 4 min.)

Is it too late to save your marriage? 6 signs that you’re headed for a divorce (and how to stop it) (Read time: 6 min.)

When someone asks you about your marriage, what’s your response? Lukewarm? Neutral? Nagging? Resentful? In a time when the divorce rate for all marriages is over 50%, the pressure to make a woman breadwinner marriage work is higher than ever… and the statistics for marital success tell a sad, unfortunate story: In one study in… Read More Is it too late to save your marriage? 6 signs that you’re headed for a divorce (and how to stop it) (Read time: 6 min.)

5 Ways to Reframe Being Bossy in Work and Life… (Read Time: 4 min.)

Sometimes, someone will call you bossy and it’ll be spot on.  In that moment, you’ll need to take a step back, reflect, and shift.  There are other times, however, when someone calls you bossy and it’s not an issue of control so much as it’s a matter of you standing up for your needs, desires,… Read More 5 Ways to Reframe Being Bossy in Work and Life… (Read Time: 4 min.)

How to Get Marital Peace When You’d Rather Be Anywhere But Home… (Read Time: 4 min.)

You run your show.  You bring home the bacon.  You’re the one wearing the pants… and the BOTH of you know it.  But, lately, things haven’t been easy.  There’s been tension in the air, things left unsaid, household responsibilities left undone, and outside of talking about bills, birthdays, and chores, there hasn’t been much to… Read More How to Get Marital Peace When You’d Rather Be Anywhere But Home… (Read Time: 4 min.)